LuBu McJohnson wrote:
communication is the thing here. If you don't like a warm-up you should let everyone know that, and let then know why, and then I'll bet it won't affect the mood.
That's definitely true. Or in the case of Hot Spot, be the guy who says: "Hey guys, let's do the version with alternating monologues. I really don't know song lyrics so I'd love to participate that way, or maybe I'll just make up pretend lyrics."
I struggle with the way my brain is wired. Most people with dyscalculia or dyslexia do. People who are bad at math or spelling for that reason are not lazy by any means. It's honestly how they are wired.
(in my case left and right disorientation)
This is something I was able to challenge all throughout childhood by failing math test after math test & nobody ever figuring out why. People would say "Come on, quit being lazy" while I was acing every other subject. People being insensitive to my hangup was super frustrating and overwhelming at times. Again, I say it's how I was wired differently from other humans.
But I will say this. Tami introduced a rhythm game recently that she loves. I didn't say anything because I was auditing the level 1 class. I wanted to "do the thing" and be a good role model and all that junk.
But you know what? I killed that rhythm game. I think I was just on a slower development curve. I needed time to build up the muscle maybe.
So even harder hangups CAN be overcome. I think. Sometimes it just takes time. And then more time. Also time.